Of the child grow the manner be closely bound up with the parent, their child also can show the parents of different type to develop differently, visit the father and mother that you are which kinds of type now:
The characteristic of oversight parents: Be enmeshed morely in oneself need, both neither cares the child, incorrect also child raises a requirement. To child indifferently, refuse, close child between lack interacts and communicate.
The child's development: Produce problem of a lot of behavior, body and mind cannot get healthy progress.
The expert is directive
Judge parents it is OK to foster a style according to two standards: It is parents whether care child, 2 it is whether parents raises a requirement to the child.
Already care child, have the father and mother of the requirement to the child again, it is authoritative model (or weigh democracy model) parental;
Lack care to the child, but what ask strictly is absolute model parental;
Care child, but what did not ask to the child is indulgent model parental;
Do not have care already to the child, what also do not have a requirement is oversight parents.
Fostered style theory to get very strong confirm, but people also discovers, when it walks into Oriental culture, need to be examined afresh however. Traditional Chinese family emphasizes parents of child give presents, parents child of rigid surelysubject sb to discipline, be differentiated very easily absolute model in. However, in Chinese traditional culture, "Child filial piety " it is another " father mothers " : Parents should teach the child proper behavior standard already, also want child warmth and care, hold a family harmonious. This is more adjacent and authoritative model foster a style, and unlike absolute model parents is right of the child make excessive demands and control.
No matter be the west or east, in the parentage that profit grows at the child, have a few collective essential factor, that is: Parents expects to what the child grows and show loving care for.
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